Comments on: What do you love about men? (or, why is it so great being a man?)

By: Patrick

Patrick — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 14:54:57 +0000

Shirley Ann…I think there is an ever-increasing number of men out there, that possess that quality. Most of my straight, male friends, seem to celebrate the concept of equality. Many guys even seem okay with a dominant ( as opposed to domineering) woman. It's a turn on.
Things get messy when that dominance comes at the expense of their own masculinity, especially in front of other guys. It's a fine line, but it's there.

By: Patrick

Patrick — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 14:34:02 +0000

Hey there, I stumbled across this post by accident, and thought I'd share my humble viewpoint.

As a gay male, my perspectives are different, and somewhat nuanced, though no more accurate.
I agree with every post I've read, so far.

I like being a man because of the sense of action, intensity, and confidence the male gender embraces. It's the combination of brains, brawn, and testosterone, that allows a man to be a "guy". Simply put...it's empowering, but doesn't strip us of our sensitivity.

Yes, men are awesome, but that fact in no way detracts from the accomplishments, or abilities of women. It does however, carry a subtle difference. It's a difference that nature designed us to have, and it's encouraging to see it embraced, instead of ridiculed, as is often the case.

By: jennb

jennb — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 00:31:08 +0000

I love the side of men they only let their women see that sweet little boy not trying to impress anyone just being himself

By: jennifersage

jennifersage — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 21:32:38 +0000

Hello

By: Elena

Elena — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 15:09:10 +0000

Heyy! Yeah, dead on! These were all the things I was going to say. I love the gentle strength of men… Somehow this seems intrinsically tied to their bodies… a strong chest and broad shoulders, sinewy forearms and big hands that could crush mine if it wanted to; seeing that body that easily takes up a strong and assertive space, in a high pressure job, or pounding nails on a roof in two heavy smacks, suddenly picks up a child or strokes your face with the gentlest touch… nothing is sexier. Wow.

By: Shirley Ann

Shirley Ann — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 09:26:48 +0000

What I love about men is something that only some men possess. I love a man's
ability to see women as equals – not just talking the talk, but to be aware of when
women are marginalized…then speak out, or act in such a way to counteract the
injustice. It takes a confident man to to share the world in this way. That confidence
is very appealing.

By: Will Wright

Will Wright — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 04:29:01 +0000

That's sad. I hope the men in your life provide you more opportunities to love them next week. Or at least that you find other moments of joy and love in your life.

By: Kelly

Kelly — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 00:26:39 +0000

I love their hands. They seem to tell the story of men before them and the things they will hold, work and love in the future.

By: Jennifer Sage

Jennifer Sage — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:51:11 +0000

The good thing about this is the sheer novelty when you do wear a suit. Everyone notices how totally hot you look. That is certainly the case for me with my smart casual husband. He appears once is a blue moon in a suit and all I can say is Wow!!!!!!

By: Julie

Julie — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 23:42:57 +0000

Jess- So well put! I love how men are more simple with their words and actions (much easier to read than women most times!)

Additionally, I also love the goofy 1:1 time when a guy can be honest, playful and vulnerable. I love that I'm the only person that sees this side of him– makes me feel so special!