Carrie says: How men hold their hands. Clean sweat. People who listen. Men who anticipate your needs. Being grabbed by my guy as I walk by. Confidence with humility. Kindness to animals and children.

Danielle says: About 80% of the male population. Sandalwood. Philanthropy. Compassion. Servant Leadership. ALL forms of traditional chivalry (except dueling, gun fights aren’t very sexy). Hearty laughter from almost anyone. Loving fathers. Sometimes, if they’re not too angry or naive, tortured artists are totally hot. Clearly articulated desire. Apologies. Devotion. My man’s true, true, heart and his hand on the small of my back when we walk. Most public displays of affection.