Carrie says: I have a slowly diminishing fear of being dominated; being ruled over without an opportunity to speak or be heard. This especially showed up in my romantic relationships where, to avoid being dominated, I tried to control my boyfriends. Maturity and wisdom allowed me to observe and slowly let go. I am happy to say I am in a wonderfully balanced, that is, equal, marriage.

Danielle says: I have a phobia of being anesthetized. I’m totally spooked by “anesthesia awareness” phenomenon. What’s more, I’m afraid I’d hit another dimension and fumble to get back to earth – the Big I’m Outta Here.