Friday Edition: Who would you be if you were freed from your past?
Daily | June 27th, 2008 by Danielle LaPorte | Comments | Leave a commentLife does not accommodate you; it shatters you. Every seed destroys its container, or else there would be no fruition. - Florida Scott-Maxwell
“In terms of personal transformation, the self in not translated, the Self is made toast.”
- Ken Wilber
This is a big topic. But it’s Friday, and as you know, Fridays we go for broke in terms of pure soul content. Western spirituality is great at helping us to identify our wounds and ‘isms. After enough therapy we can honorably say, “I’m neurotic because of my mother,” or “I’m a bit selfish because I didn’t get enough attention as a child.” But identifying the source of your shit is only half the journey. The other half is composting it into something radically new.
So, like, what if you CHANGED? Today. What if you didn’t have your story and all it’s origins to cling to? (Look, we know it’s next to impossible, but just humor our experimental inquiry for a minute.) What if a really hip and glowing angel emerged from your computer screen right this second and said, “You are what you want to be from this day forward, and we’ll just forget about all the times you were less than your best, and the understandably manipulative ways you’ve tried to love and be loved.” So…
Who would you be if you were freed from your past?


I’d be a whole lot lighter, that’s for damn sure. I’d laugh more with my husband. All the petty resentments for not getting my needs met from birth to 39 (whine when you say that,) would be out of the way and on a daily basis, I’d be the hilarious hot babe that he fell in love with. Fresh start = bye bye resentment, hello giggles.




