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Mind the sale.

Fashion | June 9th, 2008 by Carrie McCarthy

I was shopping once and watched a woman holding up a dress for her man to check out. “What do you think honey?” she asked. “It’s ugly, babe,” he answered. “Yeah, but it’s 50% off!” She defended. “Yeah,” he said patiently. “But it’s ugly.”

This, ladies and gentlemen, aptly illustrates the Curse of the Sale.
Oh, the seduction. The deal, the dollars. Retail victory? Or retail folly?

Money is a form of energy and who wants to waste it? Frugality can be power, to be sure, but you only win when you get great value for your money, AND great value for your life. Buying something at full price that will always give you pleasure is a great return on your investment — as opposed to a dozen “what was I thinking?” discounts.

THIS WEEK or ANY WEEK:
Conduct a sensual and aesthetic experiment. {NOTE: This exercise should not cost you a dime.} Go clothes or jewellery shopping with your senses in the lead. Pick out what attracts you. Try a few things on. DO NOT LOOK AT THE PRICE TAGS.

When you’re clear on what you’d ideally like to have, then, and only then, look at the price. Walk away if you can’t afford it. Buy only what you absolutely love. We venture to guess that if you shopped this way all of the time, you’d not only save money in the long run, you’d have a plenty of good looks and feelings to show for it.

 

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    Shopping sensually also keeps a shopper out of icky and discouraging places - well, it keeps me out of them, anyway. I find that I only shop in certain places when I'm already depressed! They don't even sound mildly interesting if I'm not already feeling rotten.

    The other thing I think it does is stop a person from calling hoarding by the wrong name of "frugality" and substitutes the creating of a beautiful life with the filling of an empty one - with junky stuff that make you feel like you "deserve" or can find virtue in ugliness.

    Do we think money buys style? Labels mark the items that will stamp the owner with social status? Or that a "good deal" means purchasing an item is virtuous somehow?

    Whatever it is, shopping sensually solves the problem. Thanks for this post.
 
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