We asked you to share your thoughts on what helps and/or hinders your sex life. Busy schedules, health issues, kids and even pets piled up in the “hinder” category, but the “help” category was also loaded with thoughtful musings on what gets you in the mood for love.

What we wear/don’t wear “reveals” a lot…
“Going barefoot and having my skin breathe by not wearing constricting clothing. So, wearing as little as possible whenever possible (around the house).” – Chantal

Sometimes we need to feel the love, before we can give the love.
“Thinking about all that I appreciate about him during the day and wanting to express it during the night.” – Molly

Taking a moment to appreciate the things he’s good at.
“…seeing my hubby cooking, or fixing a door or really anything that takes his care and concentration really turns my crank!” – Cindy

A little reminder goes a long way.
“…remembering that making the “effort” is the same as making the effort to unwrap birthday presents.” – Stephanie

Authentic understanding leads to authentic expression.
“The increasing wisdom of knowing myself and expressing that authentically.” – Channing
“…that I make time to reflect on my own strengths and sexiness…” – Vanessa Rae

Get all your senses involved.
“I also find some scents helpful…for some reason Karma from Lush is very sensual. I keep one of their solid shampoos in my undie drawer and it gives everything a nice light scent.” – Kerry

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C&D Friday Focus: Revive Your Mojo